5 Lessons for Radical Self-Care

On today’s episode, I’m reflecting on my journey through the teacher self-care space, and I’ll be sharing 5 lessons that self-care taught me and that I hope self-care will teach you.




First of all, I want to be very clear that my platform - nor my podcast - is advocating that self-care is a solution to the many and varied issues that plague the teaching profession. However, I do believe and stand by the fact that self-care helps us stay more whole so that we have the capacity to fight and stand up to the issues in ways that create real change. I saw a post on Instagram recently that said, “Self-care isn’t the solution to systemic problems,” and I wholeheartedly agree. I do, however, believe that self-care is a small way that we can individually try to take some responsibility for our own wellness so that we can better advocate for the collective changes teachers and students - and ultimately our communities - deserve.


6 years ago, I burned out for the first time, and it took me a while to even identify what I was going through. Even once my burnout had a name, my thought was “this is just how it is," and I truly believed that I had to suffer in silence.


It wasn’t until 2018 that I realized that maybe, just maybe, I could prioritize my own wellness in a way that would help me stand up to the larger issues facing classroom teachers. When I created The AfroEducator originally, I didn’t intend for my platform to focus on teacher wellness…heck I didn’t even know what teacher wellness was. I remember trolling Twitter one day though and seeing a couple of tweets related to teacher self-care, and up until this point, I hadn’t even really heard of self-care; but these tweets - after my encounters with burnout - resonated with me. It was ultimately these words, and a subsequent podcast guest appearance, that launched me into the teacher wellness space and my passion for this work grows stronger with every story of burnout, every DM conversation, and every blog post that documents yet another educator's experience.


Through all of my experiences and growth over the past few years, I’ve learned there are some key lessons to true self-care that I wanted to share here with you today.


5 Self-Care Lessons for Educators

1. Self-care isn’t self-serving

This is probably the biggest argument against self-care. People assume, and even I used to believe, that the “self” in self-care meant that it was all for self. But I’ve grown and learned that self-care is about taking care of YOU so that you can serve others. Many of us, especially, teachers, wear many hats. We will never play all of our roles perfectly, but self-care certainly increases our capacity to wear those hats and realize when we may need to swap one hat for another or remove hats altogether.


2. Self-care isn’t a quick fix

Self-care is not a solution. It’s a mitigation strategy—a way to help keep the pieces together even when everything around you is falling apart. It’s also not a one-and-done situation either. You have to be willing to do the work, day after day. It’s mindfulness about our choices. It’s how are we showing up and whether or not we are showing up as the best versions of ourselves. It’s also considering how we spend our time and the stories we tell ourselves that ultimately drive our actions.


3. Self-Care is NOT the same as Self-Indulgence.

Recently, I’ve seen several posts that are strongly against self-care and almost seem to shame anyone who supports that self-care could be helpful. Most of these pieces describe self-care as indulgences such as bubbles baths, shopping trips, and glasses (or bottles) of wine; and they then proceed to stand against self-care as a whole. These narratives take a very limited and skewed view of self-care that is really more aligned with self-indulgences. One is compromised of actions that may provide temporary escape or relief, while the other is a mindset that is only developed through reflection, self-awareness, and habit changes that center around the notion of making choices that honor your best self.


4. You can embed self-care/wellness practices into your instruction

When I first entered the teacher wellness space, self-care seemed like something to do before or after school, but I couldn’t’ quite wrap my mind around how self-care could permeate into more aspects of my life; until I listened to a podcast from Angela Watson that encouraged me to set more strict parameters around my time - a commodity that most teachers and adults feel we don’t have enough of. Teachers, especially, have this lack mentality around time because of the lack of autonomy over how much of it is spent. Most days, we know where we will be and who we'll be with down to the minute.


Setting boundaries around my time looked like setting office hours, communicating those hours, and sticking to them. Initially, this was difficult to adhere to because I was used to answering emails long after school ended or well before school started. When I instituted “office hours,” it was a game-changer. This was really when I opened my mind to the idea that I could do other things in my teaching practice and in my classroom to support my self-care. So, I began to implement other strategies that helped me place my energy and time into high-value tasks and eliminate, or greatly reduce, the time I used to spend on menial tasks that really didn’t matter. I made my classroom as automated as possible by relying heavily on set, patterned daily routines which allowed students to operate more independently. Because of this, my students relied less on me to repeat instructions and I was able to shift away from the draining role of a "Sage-on-the-Stage" and become more of a facilitator that probed and extended their learning. I began using screencast videos for whole group mini-lessons and reviews. I also introduced my students to mindfulness exercises and the Pomodoro technique.


By helping my students develop self-awareness and time management skills, I was also contributing to my own well-being too.


5. Self-awareness is the key to real self-care

Self-care, at its core, is about making mindful choices that serve the version of yourself you want to be, but we can’t do that unless we have a deep and integral knowledge of who we are, what we need, and what we want. That awareness starts with reflection and simply taking stock of the stories we tell ourselves and what we already believe. It begins with noticing our feelings and our actions as we work to maximize our time, energy, and joy.


The reality is that teachers have been propping up K12 education in the US for a long time, and its slow crumble is quickly turning to disaster, the effects of which are ripping through our nation’s schools and classroom teachers are feeling the weight of a system on the brink of collapse.


And while self-care isn’t the solution, radical self-care is an individual step forward within the collective movement. It’s the push back against a narrative that would rather see us so burned-out.


My Favorite Wellness Resouces To Enhance Your Journey Towards Radical Self-Care


People to Follow:

@theburnedinteacher

@Kaylandlamar

@howtogetawaywithteaching

@selfcareisforeveryone


Books To Read:

Start with Why by Simon Sinek

Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawabb

Badass Habits by Jen Sincero

Good Vibes, Good Life: How Self-Love Is the Key to Unlocking Your Greatness by Vex King


Podcasts to Listen to:

Self-Care IRL

The Burned-In Teacher Podcast

Self-Care for Educators

Truth for Teachers







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